喪禮安排

婆婆 (丘惠) 在6月8日主懷安息, 喪禮安排如下

地點: 香港殯儀館 204 室
6月25日(星期一) 下午 : 守夜
6月26日(星期二) 早上 11.00 : 安息禮拜 ; 下午 12.45 : 哥連臣角火葬 ; 下午 1:30午飯/解穢酒

要走的路, 已經走完了

今早 10：20am 婆婆走完她８１年的路程, 天父叫她平靜的回家.

6月3日 星期日
我身在葡萄牙跟媽媽通了電話, 因為肺炎關係, 呼吸開始有些困難.

6月4日 星期一
我試同婆婆傾電話. 但她可能無氣講電話. 但她有著信心地跟我說: 『返來先講喇!』

6月6日 星期三
下午她教會朋友來探望. 婆婆出奇的精靈. 還可以一一叫出他們的名字, 和跟他們傾談一會.
晚上Sandy煲了靚湯來探望, 但那時情況已經開始轉壞. 呼吸開始辛苦. 怕她捱不過這一夜.
媽媽在家, 但整夜睡不著.

6月7日 星期四
早晨8點幾, 醫院打電話比媽媽說情況不好, 血壓只有70幾. 媽媽趕到醫院. 中午血壓上升少少, 但還是不好.
婆婆已經沒有氣力講說話, 只是不斷望門口. 好像等待我回港, 見我一面.
下午4:15, 我落機. 立即收到 Sandy 電話, 催促我趕快到醫院. 我立即搭的士去醫院.
到醫院已經 5:00, 幸好婆婆還見到我一面. 和她祈禱後, 她再一次(這天第二次)比較清醒. 我跟她說話, 她雖然沒有氣力講說話, 但會給我反應. 那時有 Ah Sa, Sandy, Rita 和婆婆教會的一位傳道人. 我們一起跟婆婆祈禱, 她用微弱的聲音說 : 「阿門」 我們還唱她熟悉的詩歌 ─ 我愛主. 最後她還細聲的說:「我愛主」 真的好像乖乖的小朋友一樣.

(這天第一次比較清醒時, 是她教會牧師為她祈禱, 叫撒但離開她, 並教導她怎樣走天路. 婆婆表示明白)

天使為她開路
婆婆一年來都是由顧問醫生 ─ 劉志權醫生 ─ 主診, 他是一個基督徒而且十分有責任的醫生. 由於婆婆早前情況平穩, 所以由 3A 病房 轉去 3B療養病房. 但3B 是由另一位醫生負責. 他是一個有名的醫生 ─ 不負責任, 什麼都不理. 在他一次和我媽媽對話中都已經可以引證他的名氣.

早前院牧探望婆婆, 不忍心看見她這麼辛苦. 就同媽媽說:「 可以同醫生講, 醫生可有辦法叫她舒服一些.」 媽媽回答說 : 「3B 個醫生係唔會幫婆婆再做什麼.」 院牧只苦笑, 沒有再表示什麼.

星期四傍晚, 媽媽和她教會牧師在病房外大堂傾談. 恰巧劉醫生從3A 病房出來, 快速的腳步去按電梯下班. 媽媽看見, 想叫他. 但沒有, 因為婆婆轉了3B 理應由3B 醫生治理. 劉醫生不需要再理. 突然劉醫生走回頭去一看我媽媽, 媽媽立即上前說 : 「劉醫生, 院牧話醫生可有辦法叫她舒服一些, 劉醫生你去睇婆婆會唔會有衝突?」 劉醫生只笑一笑 (第一次見他沒有口罩的樣子, 原來都幾靚仔) 說 ：「我同你去睇下佢喇.」

之後劉醫生跟我們立即開會說, 如果沒有其他家人要見, 他可以開一些嗎啡使婆婆進入睡眠, 在其中離開. 我們都決定這樣做.

星期四深夜開始用嗎啡使婆婆慢慢入睡.

感謝神, 叫天使幫婆婆開路. 歸榮耀與神！

6月8日 星期五
早上6時許, 我看婆婆已經睡得很好.
我們一起唱詩, 祈禱, 讀經..
7時多, 氧氣不足, 我和 Sandy 要叫護士加大氧氣輸出. 免得因窒息而離開. 感謝神, 好叫我們在場發現, 不然護士不會為快走的人加大氧氣.
大約9時, 婆婆教會的傳道人都來到探望. 我們再一起唱詩, 祈禱, 讀經. 她雖不醒, 但我看她的反應. 認為她是聽到的.
這幾天媽媽很累, 那時媽媽還未來到.
10時18分 看見她的心跳突然由100 一下一下跌到 50幾, 再下跌到 30幾. 心跳機已經不斷響. 我立即叫媽媽過來醫院. 但跌得實在太快. 2分鐘時間 已經跌到 0. 雖然時間好短, 但她沒有太辛苦的樣子. 相信她已經乖乖的聽我們的引導, 不用怕, 叫她放鬆去找天父. 我們日後在天堂再一起唱歌.

肺炎未有好轉

昨天剛跟媽媽通了電話, 佢話婆婆現在比早兩日還差. 現時因為肺炎關係, 所以呼吸開始有些困難. 醫生給氧氣面罩幫助呼吸. 已經食了4天擴生素, 但肺炎未有好轉. 希望醫生會有好些藥去控制肺炎.

希望這星期不會有太大惡化, 因為我要星期四先回港. 真係有些擔心.

Lisbon, Portugal. 8.10am

Go Home

Yesterday morning, we had meeting with the doctor. He said my grandma internal organs function is normal (well) for her age. Only one thing is she has no energy on her legs, she even can't stand. Doctor plans to transfer her to do physiotherapy for 1-2 weeks, hope that she can walk again.

But doctor said, we need to consider a contingency plan. If she can't walk (even can't stand), how is our plan to take care her. Either we transfer her to some Elderly Care Home or find a way to look after at home. In fact, we don't prefer Elderly Care Home option, it seems too bad to an elderly who understands everything (Her mind is clear and no disability, no mental issue).

After the meeting, Mom and I talked to grandma, she seems to be very disappointed, because she can't discharge shortly. And we tried to explain the situation many times. In fact, she understands, but it's kind of bad mood in hospital. She keeps mention to Go Home. :-(

Tonight, I got to pray with her. She is so clever, prayer was short. "Please don't let me think too much unnecessary things. I can't do anything, just rely on my Lord. You can save me", she prayed.

I do pray for her every day & night. Let God give her a peace of mind.

A Peaceful Day

I took a day off yesterday (25th May, Friday). Would like to have a peaceful day.

Morning, I had a morning tea with mom. Then I planned to take some photos at countryside, but didn't know where to go. Eventually I found a mini bus to Po Toi O (布袋澳). Seems there is a good place to go alone and have a silent walk there.



I stayed there for about 2 hours and had a good sea-view lunch.

It was about 2.00pm. What's the sunny day, Today! It was time to go beach and had a sunbath. Had a sun-drenched afternoon at Clearwater Bay.



I haven't this one-person peaceful day for long time. Seems I really need some personal time to think about what I'm looking for and how to react my pressure in my heart. In fact, too many things rush together at a time, I even don't have a minute to relax and refresh my mind.

My Lord, Please guide me what I should do, where I should go. Please let me walk in your way.

Oil Paint Exhibition @ TST Intercontinental Hotel

Last Sunday, I have been in TST and walked around. I was attracted by a big oil paint exhibition poster and wanted to go there.

Today, I have some time to go TST after work. I went to the exhibition, that's my 1st time to see paint exhibition. That's superb.

I got a leaflet from there. Let you see how's it great!

Aryila

Grandma

Walk - Wheel Chair - Bus

Recently, grandma can't walk due to legs edema and no energy on her legs. It causes difficulty for toilet also.

When she finds her situation is getting worse, she does not want to be a disable. Always tries walking at home, but fail many times and kneel down suddenly. Mom and I worry her knee bone will be broken if she keeps trying. Also, when she kneel down, we cannot pick her up. From that point of time, she is sad and no mood for everything. What she can do is, lie on the bed.

Last Monday, Mom and I tried to bring her to hospital by taxi. She even could not stand and step forward from wheel chair into taxi. Eventually, she knelt down on the road. We were hard to pick her back to wheel chair. Only thing I could do, call ambulance.

Today, grandma has to go hospital again for doctor consultation. We changed the way that we take bus, which supports wheel chair drive in, to go hospital. That's a much easier way!! But in fact, not many bus has wheel chair support. We waited for more than 30 mins, finally a 3rd bus came.

Today, grandma has to stay in hospital and do more check up. Doctor said, he will phone us for family meeting and plan the next step.

May God help us and give her a peace of mind!

三福使命隊長

至4月16日開始, 帶著三福使命隊長的身份去幫助兩位中華神學院同學, 要去完成三福佈道訓練. 開始認識之前都有點緊張, 神學生不知會怎麼樣的同工呢.. 但感謝神, 我們容易的熟絡了. 一起出隊都好開心, 我都有自然(和平時教會一樣)的帶領.

她們的三福出隊訓練比我們教會的出隊訓練有很大不同.
* 她們各人只出4次隊, 便可完成三福出隊實習訓練
* 只有第一次會觀察我講整段三福一次
* 第二次出隊她們各人已經要可以講各半三福內容.
* 第三次出隊她們各人要講整段三福各一次.
* 第四次出隊是成功作街頭問卷佈道一次

看到她們平時學習已經十分忙碌, 只有幾次出隊經驗時還要記下很多細節. 真是很不容易. 我曾想, 我會否降低自己講述三福細節的要求呢? 最後還是沒有這樣, 因為我覺得她們明日帶隊會跟我所給的標準去教她的隊員. 所以我都要一樣的細緻地去指出各個細節的要求. 希望她們帶隊一樣的小心細緻的去教導隊員喇.

感謝神, 她們很有耐心學習和很快便活學活用 !!

5月14日最後一次出隊. 成功決志! (訓練一共出了 5 次隊, 有4位決志. 神真係勁!)

昨晚 (5月15日) 她們約我出去食飯, 真係開心. 可以大家坐下來如細說大家的見證, 分享神奇妙的帶領. 聽到她們怎樣聽到神清晰的呼召, 真係為她們感恩. 靈命的堅固, 真叫我有比下去之感.. 都好叫我要努力的追求.

最後她們說請 "老師" 食飯. 還準備了一盒精美的禮物給"老師". 其實, "老師" 一詞真的唔敢當. 有些不自然呢. 如果有機會做學弟已經感謝神了.

不過, 當然精美的禮物和晚飯, 我都不客氣地收了.. heehheeee 感謝神.














精美的禮物和一張 Thank You Card 真叫人興奮 (已往帶隊都收過兩張 Thank You Card, 不過禮物還是第一次呢)













好好安置了那筆坐之後, 跟我另外兩件新玩具來個大合照先!!